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Weekly Bookshelf

May 20th, 2013

When I go into someone’s house or apartment for the first time, I find myself especially drawn to their bookshelves. I want to see the books that they read and the ones they have on display. I like to know which ones have mattered enough to keep, which ones are dogeared and worn, and which are on the stack to be read next.
Started out this week with Buffy the Vampire Slayer Season 9 Volume 3: Guarded. I am a HUGE Buffy fan and have been really enjoying having the story continued in graphic novel form. There were some really amazing plot twists in this one that made it great to read. And, of course, the artwork is amazing. 9781616550998_p0_v1_s260x420

Next was A Darkly Hidden Truth (The Monastery Murders) by Donna Fletcher Crow. This book was much better than the one I read last week. The character development was better, the story had less holes, etc. I loved all of the history and the way she describes the churches and scenery. The ending left a little to be desired, but I feel like this is a series that’s going to continue to improve and I think I’ll stick with it for a while.
Next up was What You Do Best in the Body of Christ: Discover Your Spiritual Gifts, Personal Style, and God-Given Passion by Bruce Bugbee. This is a book that is all about figuring out what your spiritual gifts are and how best to use them. On the whole I liked this book; I especially like the way that the author encourages people to look at the intersection of their spiritual gifts, their personal style, and their passion. I haven’t seen many books that talk about all three areas. However, I can’t recommend this book because the theology was pretty bad and some of the questions in the questionnaire point to ways that I don’t necessarily believe God acts. I just wouldn’t want to give this book to folks without doing a LOT of unpacking of it, and that, to me, makes it not worth the bother.
Lastly I read Life in God’s Presence – A Simple Approach to Prayer by A Carthusian. The Carthusian monks are one of the world’s strictest monastic orders. Anyone who writes a book or essay from their order does so anonymously. I’m fascinated by the Carthusians and was excited to read this slim volume. There were parts that were really good, but I wanted more concrete examples than I got. But still a good volume.

 

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Weekly Bookshelf

May 13th, 2013

When I go into someone’s house or apartment for the first time, I find myself especially drawn to their bookshelves. I want to see the books that they read and the ones they have on display. I like to know which ones have mattered enough to keep, which ones are dogeared and worn, and which are on the stack to be read next.

 

I am currently on a kick of reading mystery books with clergy as the detectives so we’ve got a couple in that vein this week. I read the next in the Merrily Watkins’ series by Phil Rickman The Smile of a Ghost (Merrily Watkins Mysteries). Again these books about about a Church of England vicar who is also the Diocesan Deliverance Minister (aka exorcist). In this one there a town that seems to be haunted and no one is as they seem. Very enjoyable.

 

Next up in the clergy detective vein is A Very Private Grave (The Monastery Murders) by Donna Fletcher Crow. This book follows a young seminary student named Felicity and a priest named Father Antony. A monk is found murdered and it’s up to Felicity and the Father to figure out who did it and why.

 

I enjoyed this book but it had some serious problems. In one instance a character disappeared (with no mention) for five chapters and then suddenly reappears. There were also some moments where the characterizations were just really off and some repetitive inner monologues that got rather annoying. But the story itself was really interesting and included a lot of church history that I found fascinating. The different places they travel to are incredibly well researched and well-described. On the whole I enjoyed this one, in spite of the problems, and will probably give at least the next book in the series a try.
Then I read Practicing Greatness: 7 Disciplines of Extraordinary Spiritual Leaders (Jossey-Bass Leadership Network Series) by Reggie McNeal and Ken Blanchard. 510mUv9YclL._BO2,204,203,200_PIsitb-sticker-arrow-click,TopRight,35,-76_SX225_SY300_CR,0,0,225,300_SH20_OU01_ This book wasn’t stellar, but it was still pretty good. I found some of it too simplistic and some of the theology was off-putting, but there were also some really good insights. I also appreciated that the author used examples of women in leadership throughout. This book also encourages folks to really understand themselves and to get professional help from a therapist (which I find to be rare for many Christian books who frown on therapy and psychology). Definitely some good stuff in here even if I wouldn’t rate it five stars.

 

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Church Planter’s Diary

May 8th, 2013

As a part of being a church planter, I am using this space to share some reflections about this journey in the hopes that it will be an encouragement and aid to others. Check out the rest of the diary.

 

We are about halfway through our launch group process for House of the Transfiguration. I can’t believe how quickly it’s going. Each week we are looking at part of our Vision Frame.cpdgraphic

 

Things have been going really well so far. There’s been a few steady people with others drifting in and out. It feels like people are starting to get excited about the vision which is really great to see.

 

One of the things I am learning is that there is a lot of translation needed. For folks who have been Catholic all of their lives some of the conversations about evangelical practices seem to not make sense. For folks who haven’t had much exposure to the Catholic Mass that remains a bit of a mystery. That’s the tricky part about doing a fusion of traditions and styles. It’s also the tricky thing about doing a launch group where you are talking about vision and not necessarily doing the stuff you’ll be doing in your weekly worship gathering. As we finish up working through our vision, our conversations will shift more towards what the worship gathering will look like.

 

In addition to the Launch Group meetings (which happen weekly), I am also working on securing space for us to worship in. I think we are really close to working things out with a host church which is really exciting. I reached out to a bunch of churches that were different enough from us stylistically but were in line with our values to see if anyone would be willing to host. Most of my emails weren’t returned. I had better luck connecting with folks I knew from other areas. It’s helpful to be able to visualize the space that we’ll be in and to start to think about what it will be like to be a worshipping community.

 

We are beginning to work on putting things together for the first preview gathering. Trying to find either a donated projector and screen or have someone donate money for a projector and screen. Still trying to find some musicians that can do both praise music and ancient church music, etc.

 

The other big project I’m/we’re working on is our presence at Pride. We got a generous donation that is allowing us to get a table at the Pride festival which is at the end of June. I am really excited about this opportunity because we’ll be able to get our materials into the hands of a lot of people very quickly and it’ll be just in time to invite folks to the first of our preview gatherings. The hard part is affording it. The donation covered the booth at Pride, a banner for the church, and a few giveaways. We still have to fund more printing and some other stuff for the table. The joy of Pride is that you reach a lot of people, the tough part of Pride is you need a TON of materials to be able to hand out to those people. We are fortunate that someone did some wonderful design work for us and so we have some really strong branding already so that means that our materials will look really nice.

 

We’re also going to be handing out glow in the dark rosaries which will be really fun. It’s a way to both show off our Catholic identity and have a little bit of fun. We’ve been asking folks to donate boxes of rosaries for us to hand out. They are $30 for a box of 100, so it’s quite reasonable. We also found a site that sells silicone wristbands that we got printed with our church website on them for really cheap so that’s cool.

 

The other thing that I am thinking through is what, exactly, to put on all of the printed materials. How do you succinctly explain who you are and what you do? We’re a part of a tradition that people aren’t very familiar with and even within that tradition we are doing things a little differently and so that’s hard to explain as well. I think the biggest thing is to let people know that we are open and welcome to queer and/or trans* folks. The rest can be figured out by looking at the website, etc.

 

I would love to hear from folks in the comments if you’ve had any particular success stories with tabling for your church or organization at Pride or some other community event! What did you hand out? What did you find people wanted to know? What did they ask? Etc. Let’s help each other out!

 

On a personal note: I am struggling with the fact that I don’t have a car. It makes it really difficult and time consuming to get to meetings, to trek equipment and materials all over the places, etc. I’ve been saving money, but it’s slow going. I would appreciate prayers for someone to either donate a car or donate money towards a vehicle because it would definitely help me do ministry more effectively.

 

The other thing I have been working on personally is my own leadership style. I’ve been working in a world where the idea of leadership has been frowned upon and so I have neglected that part of my personal development. I am doing a lot of reading about leadership, a lot of thinking about what works and doesn’t work for me, and a lot of praying that God will develop me as a leader and help me to lead from my strengths.

 

All in all, I am so thankful to be doing something that I have dreamed of since I was in high school. I have felt called to church planting for years and years and to finally be doing this work and ministry is a blessing every single day. I am so, so grateful.

 

 

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Personal Revelation

May 7th, 2013

Something has happened several times recently that left me feeling badly about myself. I’ve been out with friends or talking to someone I haven’t seen in a while and the question inevitably turns to what we we’ve been up to. So I rattle off all of the various things I am doing (which are work or ministry related). Then the person asks, “What do you do for fun?” And I pause. Then I tell them that I mostly hang out at home and read books. They look at me with a bit of pity and I try to come up with something more exciting.

 

I leave the conversation feeling like I should be more exciting. I should get out and do more stuff! I should explore! I should meet new people!

 

Then I had a three part realization:

 

1: I really love the work I am doing right now. It is work that I feel called to, work that fulfills me, work that I have been dreaming of for years. I love church planting. I love directing Camp Osiris. I love teaching Queer Theology. All of this stuff excites me! And honestly, I am doing all of these projects after I work a full day/week.

 

2: I am an introvert. Which means that after I work a full day and then come home and work on either the church start, camp, or queer theology, I am exhausted and need time to recharge. I need time that is quiet, where I can read, reflect, etc.how-to-care-for-introverts

 

and 3: I like being at home by myself and reading! I like being able to putter around my apartment and do whatever feels right in the moment. I like being able to stay in bed all day with a good book, take a nap if I feel sleepy, cook delicious food, watch baseball, etc.

 

So I have decided to not feel guilty any more if people think I am not exciting enough. I am not going to feel like a loser for staying home and doing stuff that I enjoy. I am not going to feel like a workaholic for spending my time on projects that I am passionate about.

 

My life might seem anti-climactic to some folks, but honestly I am the most at peace and the most fulfilled I have ever been. I feel like I am exactly where I need to be. (And sometimes where I need to be is hanging out at home, alone, for the entire weekend.)

 

 

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Weekly Bookshelf

May 6th, 2013

When I go into someone’s house or apartment for the first time, I find myself especially drawn to their bookshelves. I want to see the books that they read and the ones they have on display. I like to know which ones have mattered enough to keep, which ones are dogeared and worn, and which are on the stack to be read next.

I’m still loving the Merrily Watkins’ series by Phil Rickman. I just finished Prayer of the Night Shepherd (Merrily Watkins 6). Again these books about about a Church of England vicar who is also the Diocesan Deliverance Minister (aka exorcist). In this book there is a twist on the backstory of Conan Doyle’s “The Hound of the Baskervilles”. Again, the perfect mix of mystery and creepy. Love it!

 

Next up was The Catalyst Leader: 8 Essentials for Becoming a Change Maker by Brad Lomenick. This is a brand new book about essentials of leadership. It was an easy read and I really appreciated his insight. It’s a Christian book and clearly the author is a bit more evangelical, but I appreciated how he made his insights applicable for people across the spectrum (rare for books like this) and that he included a whole bunch of women in his examples and in his leaders to look out for.

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I am in a place where I am learning to cultivate my own leadership style (as well as embracing the fact that I am, indeed, a leader) and so I am finding books like this to be incredibly helpful and encouraging. I’ve been running in circles the past couple of years with people who really despise talk of leadership and so I haven’t done as much thinking and growing in this area. Books like this one are a wonderful help to counteract the lack that I’ve been feeling in my own development.

 

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Weekly Bookshelf

April 29th, 2013

When I go into someone’s house or apartment for the first time, I find myself especially drawn to their bookshelves. I want to see the books that they read and the ones they have on display. I like to know which ones have mattered enough to keep, which ones are dogeared and worn, and which are on the stack to be read next.
First up is Priestblock 25487: A Memoir of Dachau by Jean Bernard. This book is his reflections on the time he spent in Dachau. I hadn’t heard or read much about the priests that spent time in concentration camps and so this was a new perspective. Obviously the book is harrowing and upsetting, but there were also moments where humanity shone through even in the midst of the terror.

I would have appreciated reading more about his life before and after his time in the camp. This book really just covers the time he spent in Dachau so I feel like you don’t really get a picture of his life and how this experience changed him. But I am thankful to have read this and to know a bit more about this important event.

Then I read the next three books in the Merrily Watkins’ series by Phil Rickman: Crown of Lights (Merrily Watkins 3), The Cure of Souls (Merrily Watkins 4), and The Lamp of the Wicked. Again these books about about a Church of England vicar who is also the Diocesan Deliverance Minister (aka exorcist). I am really loving this series. Each book is an interesting mystery that is equal parts suspense and pure creepiness. I’m liking the characters more and more as the series builds. Definitely an enjoyable series. 51FZqPogo1L._BO2,204,203,200_PIsitb-sticker-arrow-click,TopRight,35,-76_SX225_SY300_CR,0,0,225,300_SH20_OU01_

I’ve got a bunch of other books that are in process. Hopefully I’ll be able to finish them up soon! What are you reading these days?

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Church Planter’s Diary

April 12th, 2013

As a part of being a church planter, I am using this space to share some reflections about this journey in the hopes that it will be an encouragement and aid to others. Check out the rest of the diary.

Our first launch group for House of the Transfiguration was last week. Each week we are looking at part of our Vision Frame. Last week we started with the idea of Feast: A place where all are welcome and all are fed. You can read the recap of what we actually talked about on the church blog. In this space I plan to share more practical details as well as some of my reflections on the experience. cpdgraphic
I arrived early for the first launch group (around 5:00, our group starts at 6:00) and was able to get right into the community center. I got it set up how I wanted and it looked decent. I did a semi-circle of chairs with a table in the front with the Bibles, a candle, and the promo stuff on it.

We had eight people show up for our first launch group meeting which I was really encouraged by. I also know of some others who couldn’t make it last night but who are interested in checking it out at some point.

One of my regrets is that I forgot to have someone take photos. I feel like we really need to be documenting this process, but also showing that there are real people involved! I posted photos of the room and stuff on Facebook but an empty room is a crappy promo.

One of the toughest parts of this launch group planning is trying to strike a balance between community building and vision casting. I don’t want our times together to be a monologue, but at this point I need to do more of the talking in order to let people into the vision of what it is we’re trying to build.

After I got home from the launch group I made sure to write down my reflections from the evening right away. I am using Evernote and keeping a “church planting” notebook. I found it really helpful to get all of those reflections on paper as well as some notes about things I forgot and things I need to make sure I do for next week. One of the big things I am missing is a real plan for follow up, so I started working a bit on that. I’m definitely a check list guy; I find lists to be really helpful in making sure I don’t forget anything so I am developing several lists: one for before each launch group and one for follow up. It’s been helpful.

Tomorrow night is our next launch group. We’re going to be talking more about what our actual gatherings will look like when we launch services. I’m excited to share that piece of the vision.

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Church Planter’s Diary

April 9th, 2013

In the process of starting House of the Transfiguration I was really influenced by the “launch group model” of church planting. In this model you meet weekly for a period of time (for us about ten weeks) to dig into the vision and values of the new church. This allows folks to build community and find out if this vision fits what they want out of the church. Then you hold three “preview gatherings”; full worship services (one a month, for us these will be July, August, and September) that allow people to experience the new church. Then you launch weekly (for us this will happen in October).

 

We’re meeting at a community center for our launch group phase and then, hopefully by July, we’ll be able to move our preview gatherings into a church. Still trying to find a church that will share space with us for our services. There are a couple of churches who have said they would consider it so I am hopeful (and praying a lot).

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To create the vision frame for House of the Transfiguration I worked through the book Church Unique: How Missional Leaders Cast Vision, Capture Culture, and Create Movement by Will Mancini. This book is, by far, the most helpful of all of the books I have read about church planting. It really helps you to focus the vision of the church and have all of the programs serve to help that vision be lived out in the congregation. It’s all about focusing on the mission of the church. We’re doing a really stripped down vision of church: No extra programs and no long term programmatic things that will lose energy or focus over time. Instead everything is focused on the mission of the church.

 

Things really started to get going on the ground in November. In November and December I ran an indiegogo campaign to raise some initial support for the church. I also hosted a house party for some people to hear more about my vision and ask them to support the work I’m doing. This was a really helpful time for me to refine and articulate the vision and values for the new church. Also during this time I started to blog on the church site more frequently and to write about the vision and what was coming up.

 

In January I was ordained as a priest and things started to heat up even more. The ordination garnered quite a bit of press which allowed me to reach people I wouldn’t have been able to reach otherwise. As folks reached out to me to express interest in the church I started setting up coffee meetings to hear more about their stories and to share more about the church. I met with probably eight or so people in February and March. I decided to start the Launch group in April so as not to have to worry about doing anything for Easter. In the lead up to the first launch group I made sure to email everyone I had gone to coffee with and spent more time putting updates on the Facebook page and on the blog.

 

Later on this week I’ll give a recap of our first launch group meeting.

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Queer Eye for the Bible Guy

April 8th, 2013

Do you look for God in books? Don’t get me wrong, I love books–books on theology, on queer liberation, on class and gender and politics, on business and on just-for-fun. (This is what I read last week)

 

But, God isn’t in the books. We all know that. Of course we know that. But, it’s easy to forget it. In my journey as a queer person, I know that I’ve looked to books–and to friends, professors, and pastors–to understand how my faith and queerness fits together.

 

I never got an easy answer. Instead, I had to deconstruct my faith and then put it back together again.

 

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What I’ve found is that transformation is incremental, it happens in conversations and relationships, in actions and interactions, in prayers and in song, through laughter and through tears.

 

There is so much more to being queer than what we are not. We have a unique way of experiencing the world and this is a gift to ourselves, the church, and the world.

 

Do you want to dive deeper? I know that I do. That’s why my friend Brian G. Murphy and I have been working on Queer Theology–we’re creating videos, resources, courses and more over at queertheology.com. It’s not quite ready yet but we just couldn’t wait any longer so we’re going to launch a four-week online course to a limited group. Head over to Queer Theology to learn more.

 

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Church Planter’s Diary

April 5th, 2013

People often ask why I would want to start a church. The objections are usually one of two things: There are so many other churches, shouldn’t you just join in with one of them? Or: It’s really hard work.

 

For me it seems inevitable. I’ve felt called to this work for years. In some ways this calling has felt completely selfish: I still haven’t found a church that feels like home to me, and I have been in a lot of churches. My thinking is that if I, someone who has been a part of the church since I was born, someone who has devoted my life to this idea of building up the kingdom, someone who wants so desperately to make church something amazing, if I can’t find a church home then there must be others who feel the same way. notebook-snedeker-planning-ahead-to-merion-to-preview-us-open_nentd_0

 

So let’s create something new.

 

My journey to this point has been a bit of a winding one. About a year ago a friend and I tried to start a church. We jumped right in without a plan and things muddled along, but it wasn’t really working. So we stopped our public gatherings. He moved on to other things and I spent a lot of time figuring out what it was that I really wanted to be a part of building. It was during this time that I found the Old Catholic church and was ordained with them.

 

I want to be able to use this journal as a place to share what I’m learning as I embark on this church planting journey. One of the things that has been the most frustrating to me throughout this planning season has been the lack of resources for liberal church planters. I don’t know anyone who is trying to do what I’m trying to do. I have definitely learned from other folks who are doing similar things, but it often feels like I am out here on my own. The resources put out by the mainline/progressive church are either super expensive or not very good. I haven’t been able to find other people who are blogging about what their experience has been like, and so I want to offer some kind of resource to people who are considering starting a new church or ministry.

 

I’ll probably put up a post about once a week with some thoughts about this process, sharing resources that I’ve found helpful, things that are working or not working, etc. If you have questions, feel free to send me an email or leave a comment.

 


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